Thursday’s Wandering Thoughts

Yesterday was Wednesday. Per tradition, our local beer group met at a local brewery, Caldera Brewing in Ashland. The group’s name is Brains on Beer. It always makes me cringe, but we inherited that name.

Two new members joined us last night: Darrell James, engineer and novelist, and Dr. Pepper Trail, forensic ornithologist and poet, author of the collection, Cascades-Siskiyou: Poems. Mr. James learned of our group because, besides being a semi-retired engineer, he’s an energetic person who does home repairs for several members. Dr. Trail worked with and for several of our members, and they thought he would enjoy our company.

Whenever new people join us, the telling of the group’s origins is done. And I realized as I sat this morning and thought about last night, the whole story of the group’s beginnings is rarely told.

What is told is that four men came together to talk science and have coffee each morning. They shifted to meeting once a week, at night, to have a beer and talk science and technology. The four men cited are Lt Col Michael Quirk (Ret, US Army), Professor Frank Lang, Dr. Ed Shelly, and Michael Hersh. All are deceased. But while they were the first four BoBs, a woman was responsible for the group being formed.

See, Michael Quirk’s wife was a social worker. Through her work, she noticed that many men age into lonely, solitary lives. She knew that a strong social life helps people remain mentally, physically, and emotionally healthy. So Diane encouraged Michael to start the social group and shift from coffee in the morning to beer in the evening once a week.

Since that start around 2008, we now have 23 members. All are liberals, BTW. It’s not a rule, but that’s how it’s worked out. Ten to fourteen people usually show up each week. We had thirteen last night. We have one person named Bob in our BoBs. From engineers, we now include medical doctors, forensics scientists, microbiologists, botanists, teachers, an ornithologist, journalists, photographers, database administrators, graphic designers, architects, and firefighters in our numbers. We also have three female members. Since we began the habit of rounding up the bill and donating to STEAM programs in our valley, we’ve donated over $43,000 to buy computers, tubidity meters, and microscopes, among other things, while supporting local robotics teams and Ashland ScienceWorks.

And it all started with one woman’s idea.

If you’re ever in Ashlandia, come on by and meet us. We start at 4 PM every Wednesday. We usually collect $20 per person. Your first visit is on us.

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  1. Wonderful Michael. Mrs Quirk is a grand woman and shows that men should learn to listen to the women in their lives. I worked with many grand women in the military, both enlisted and officers. One LT in a unit where she was not excepted as an equal to the male officers joined me and a few very select friends who understood her danger from socializing with us and respected it. She was so fun to be around, I regretted that her fellow male officers were missing her company. How anyone could feel her internal organs made her less intelligent or capable angered me. Maybe that was when I became an advocate for equality for women as well as all others.

    BTW. Did you see that President Biden certified the ERA amendment and sent it to the Archivist? I hate the SCOTUS it is headed to who in their formative prime ages lived in a time when women needed the permission of a male to get a credit card or sign contracts. When their ability to be employed in most jobs was restricted and then they faced such misogyny and sexism that they had to fight for normal human dignity at work. I wonder how associate justice Barrett will juggle her religion’s view that women are inferior to men with her duty to the millions of women in the US who do not support her views and religion? Hugs

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    1. Air Force vacillated about it but it seems like they were better about accepting females when I was in.

      I did see that about the ERA, Scottie! Read the press release. Agree with all the res that you mentioned re: SCOTUS. Hugs ‘n cheers

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