Mom’s Fault

It’s pouring rain. Soaked dark, my coat dribbled rivulets across the floor as I walked across the coffee shop.

“Did you walk?” the coffee shop owner asked. “I know you like to walk. I’ve seen you walking all over town.”

“No, I just walked a mile,” I answered. “I wanted to feel the rain and wind.”

“You like to walk, don’t you?” the owner said.

“Yes.”

Yes, I like to walk. It’s Mom’s fault. In my young life’s dawn, I’d want to go somewhere and requested Mom drive me. “You have two legs, you can walk,” she’d reply. Stories about her walking when she was a child followed. She walked to school miles in both direction, no matter what the weather was, digging trails and tunnels through the Iowa snowstorms, if necessary, fording rivers and forging trails, dodging wild animals while picking berries or nuts on the way home to use in baking, and stopping to milk the cows. If she walked in those conditions, I could walk.

I might have exaggerated about what she claimed to do.

So I walked. I walked everywhere. I didn’t have a car in high school for several years, so I walked the miles home from school after sports activities and play practices. I walked to my girlfriend’s house, miles more, and back again. Sometimes I was given rides. Sometimes, people attempted to molest me.

Once in the military, my wife and I didn’t have much income, so we walked. Over in the Philippines on duty, I didn’t have a car and had plenty of time, so I walked around the base and the town. In Germany, walking was organized into Volksmarching and celebrated with drink and food. Terrific!

By the time I began writing, walking was ingrained as part of my thinking process. I was pleased to discover that studies validated my impressions about walking. Walking ten minutes a day made most people happy besides providing exercise. Walking also enhances the creative process for most.

I was sure of that latter. Deciding I needed to put myself and my goals and dreams first, I started taking an hour out of the work day to write. Bosses, co-workers and team mates didn’t care as long as I did my share. As part of that, I observed that walking helped me shift from work Michael to writing Michael. As I walked to write, I would ask the eternal writing questions, “Where the hell am I? Where does the story go next? What do I need to write next? What did I write yesterday?” Asking these questions and thinking about it prepped me to sit down, ready to type.

Likewise, after leaving, I’d often continue working out characters, scenes and plots as I walked back to work. Then, walking to write the next day, I would recall the previous day and resume writing with little effort.

I was surprised that studies didn’t demonstrate a link to improved focused thinking, as well, and problem solving. Perhaps I’d trained myself to solve problems by walking, but I always felt leaving work for a short work, changing the scenery and releasing my brain from the work environment, was hugely instrumental in being able to see answers and develop solutions. Perhaps, though, that was still the creative brainstorming that writing seems to encourage.

My walking continued once I started working from home. I walked to take breaks and enjoy fresh air and sunshine. Then, walking to the coffee shop to write, I walked to reduce my carbon footprint and help save money and the environment.

Now, I have the Fitbit to encourage me to walk. If I haven’t walked in an hour, it buzzes me to get up and walk. So I leave the coffee shop and hustle down the steps and around the block and back. That’s enormously reduced my writer’s ass, which is when your ass goes to sleep after being almost stationary while typing or writing at a desk or table. When I’m at home, my wife and I jump up and start running around. Sometimes, we chase the cats, but they’re not into it, so we don’t do that much.

But, like many things I do and enjoy, my walking started with Mom.

Today’s Theme Music

I married in 1975. My wife is a year younger than me.

Enlisted in the Air Force, I was stationed at Wright-Patterson AFB in Fairborn, Ohio. I drove home to West Virginia when she graduated. I rented a small place off-base for one hundred dollars a month and she moved in with me. Marriage was agreed after a few months because then I would receive BAQ, which was an extra one hundred eighteen dollars a month. We kept a strict budget, saving pennies to buy a treat. We didn’t have a television. Our primary entertainment was playing cards and reading. We went to the library a lot. Mom eventually bought us a small black and white Philco portable television with attached rabbit ears.

We didn’t have a telephone. We’d walk downtown to a phone booth once a month and call our families collect. We wouldn’t talk long because we did’t want to run up their phone bills. Quarters and dimes were saved so we could go to the laundromat to wash our clothes. For a treat, twice a month, we would go out to Dairy Queen and have a Brazier Burger. We didn’t have a credit card because we didn’t qualify.

I had a cheap little all-in-one stereo that I received for a Christmas present a few years before, with two small speakers. The all-in-one meant it had a phonograph that played 45 and 33s, AM/FM radio and eight-track player all in one small unit. We had my old albums and eight-tracks, but didn’t have the money to buy new records or tapes, so we mostly listened to the radio.

Today’s song is from that time. Lionel Ritchie was still with the Commodores, and they were one of the hottest groups around. I used to sing this song to my wife. She loved that.

Here’s ‘Brick House’, from 1977.

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